Poised,
Polished
& Refined
A holistic, interdenominational Christian community raising women who are spiritually grounded, emotionally stable, socially refined, and impactful.
"May our daughters be like pillars that adorn a palace."
— Psalm 144:12b
Fondly known as
Lady O
Opeyemi Odejide
A force of grace, purpose, and transformation — Opeyemi is the visionary founder of Stately Pillars under The Flaming Prophetic Assembly Worldwide. From her teenage years, she has charted a purposeful course of influence, driven by a deep conviction to see women rise into the fullness of their identity and calling.
A seasoned marriage counsellor, author, and distinguished banker, she leads with clarity, peace, and purpose.
Building Kingdom Impact
Happy Nest
Dedicated relationship and marital counselling — from premarital preparation for intending couples to guidance and restoration for married couples. Building marriages that reflect love, stability, and godly values.
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Stately Pillars
For singles — equipping young ladies navigating identity, purpose, career, and spiritual growth.
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Pillars in the Palace
Est. 2023 — a focused space for married women to discuss marriage, purpose, and balanced living.
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December to Remember
Annual outreach reaching vulnerable communities — from schools to hospitals to widows.
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Pillars Conference
Annual November gathering — a time of revival, empowerment, and impartation for all women.
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The Nuptial Bliss
The relationship life of a woman is important. It is pivotal to every other aspect of her life; hence, the need to approach that sphere of life fully armed with knowledge.
This book presents how to understand your purpose as a woman in relationship and marriage and become the help that God calls you. Find in this book what to do before you get into a relationship, while in courtship and in marriage.
14 chapters covering every stage — from pre-relationship to courtship to marriage.
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For conferences, retreats, seminars, and women's gatherings — bring the Stately Pillars vision to your community.
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